I can vouch for the writing advice that advocates show not tell , put some skin in the game , and write what you know . I have lived it and it is true. Back in 2002 I got paid (not much) to write a weekly column for a neighborhood newspaper. Titled Lady Boomer , it ran for three and a half years and launched me from wannabe writer to published author. Written from my point of view: a fifty-something Boomer - it taught me discipline, responsibility, and humility. I talked about being suddenly single, meeting men, and advancing age – topics that challenge women of every age not just Boomers. I joined online dating groups, experienced speed dating and other humiliating and awkward social situations – all so that I could write about it firsthand. I discussed handling situations without a partner around to offer a shoulder or a helping hand. Lady Boomer received 300 - 600 emails a week (back in the days before Facebook). They ranged from adulation (women who agreed; men asking f